Sunday, April 7, 2013

PERSONALITY TRAITS: Blog Five Of An Eight Blog Study - The Kate Syndrome

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YOUR PERSONAL GPS
You might reach your life's destination better if you remember
NO ONE IS IN CONTROL OF YOUR HAPPINESS BUT YOU; THERFORE, 
YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE ANYTHING ABOUT YOURSELF
OR YOUR LIFE THAT YOU WANT TO CHANGE - Barbara de Angelis

LET THERE BE PEACE ON EARTH AND LET IT BEGIN WITH ME
Sy Miller and Jill Jackson

If people are like crayons, then the "Kate's" of this world, (not a real person), would not rate a box.  Representative of the "Kate's" would be four, long, thin crayons in a plastic bag.  The "Kate's" of this world are Control Freaks.  Control Freaks are found everywhere, in corporations, at home and in churches, too.

GOALS ALLOW YOU TO CONTROL THE DIRECTION OF CHANGE IN YOUR FAVOR
Brian Tracy

THE KATE SYNDROM

Control Freaks are unhappy and insecure people, terrified of failure of losing control.  A personality disorder stemming from childhood that cause misery and failure in others.  There is no pleasing a Control Freak except to totally accept their control, right or wrong.  They cannot change, they have no coping skills.

I CANNOT ALWAYS CONTROL WHAT GOES ON OUTSIDE, 
BUT I CAN ALWAYS CONTROL WHAT GOES ON INSIDE - Wayne Dyer

Try to avoid getting into a relationship with a Control Freak if possible.  The Control Freak can be insanely jealous and possessive for no apparent reason.  Riddled with fears and insecurities that leave them never satisfied and happy, you must go elsewhere to find happiness for yourself as you will never find peace with them.


HOPE IS SOME EXTRAORDINARY SPIRITUAL GRACE THAT GOD GIVES
TO CONTROL OUR FEARS, NOT TO OUST THEM - Vincent McNabb


If you are a Control Freak you are not only an unrealistic, immature and immoral person but you may have a serious personalty disorder.  Many professing Christian persons see themselves as teachers, facilitators, coordinators, leaders when in fact they are just  dictators, bullies, some even immoral aggressive jungle fighters, Control Freaks who need to repent.


CIRCUMSTANCES ARE BEYOND HUMAN CONTROL,
BUT OUR OWN CONDUCT IS IN OUR OWN POWER - Benjamin Disraeli

CHURCH REQUEL
I attended Church Requel in Mansfield, Ohio today.    They are having steady growth in every area.  With some 70% of Americans having a Christian belief and only about 35% actually attending church, there is a great opportunity for church growth.  That being said, the United Methodist, and other major churches have experienced losses year-after-year.  While some like the Church of the Lake UMC in North Canton are doing well, others are actually closing their doors.

Mike's Blog expressed an informed opinion that many of the churches
in trouble are the result of Control Freaks who would allow the 
church to falter rather than relinquish control to those who could save them.
I know this to be true!

REMEMBER, WHEN YOU HAVE A CONCENTRATION OF POWER IN A FEW
HANDS, ALL TOO FREQUENTLY INDIVIDUALS WITH THE MENTALITY OF
GANGSTERS GET CONTROL - Lord Acton



GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR'S

GOD BLESS THE USA



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